Read People Like a Book: How to Analyze, Understand, and Predict People’s Emotions, Thoughts, Intentions, and Behaviors
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- Update Date：2025-09-06
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- Author：Patrick King
- ISBN：B08QBB3MTG
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Bayansa
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I don't recommend it unless you are a psychopath who doesn't understand basic human emotions。 too simple and too basic for its title。 I don't recommend it unless you are a psychopath who doesn't understand basic human emotions。 too simple and too basic for its title。 。。。more
Siarl
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Before reading this book， I read a review on it that said: “this book was either written for stupid people or men。” Which made me both LOL and want to read the book。 My take away of the key points the Author asserts are: 1。 Rather than try to passively detect lies， actively steer （manipulate？） conversation so liars reveal themselves。2。 Rely on your gut feeling to read people accurately。I got a laugh from that earlier reviewer， and I understand her point。 How to Read People Like a Book is bes Before reading this book， I read a review on it that said: “this book was either written for stupid people or men。” Which made me both LOL and want to read the book。 My take away of the key points the Author asserts are: 1。 Rather than try to passively detect lies， actively steer （manipulate？） conversation so liars reveal themselves。2。 Rely on your gut feeling to read people accurately。I got a laugh from that earlier reviewer， and I understand her point。 How to Read People Like a Book is best suited for someone who desperately desires to gain situational advantage over everyone they interact with。 It’s not particularly helpful to an emotionally intelligent person。 。。。more
Pamela Cervantes
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El mejor libro sobre la psicología del comportamiento en cuanto a leer a los demás。 Tiene teoría， ejemplos y prácticos ejercicios para aprender a estudiar las relaciones humanas。
Vernon Moises Figueroa Beltre
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loved it Loved this book， it’s a really good point of start to know yourself and others behaviors。 I love it at all。 I recommend this book。
Dominik
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interesting A way to rethink my behaviour。 I gives a path to get to know myself。 Careful observation and context are key。
Dang Minh Ngoc
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Giải mã hành vi， đọc vị cảm xúc by Patrick King*sách tóm tắtThấu hiểu ng khác là nhu cầu cơ bản trong giao tiếp của con ng。 Chúng ta muốn: - Hiểu đối phương trc khi họ nói- Thấy đc động cơ đc ng khác- Bảo vệ mình- Kết nối và giao tiếp tốt hơn。- Nâng cao EQ - Trí tuệ cảm xúc- Phân nhóm những ng mình gặp để có thể ứng xử phù hợp- Hấp dẫn mọi ng - Biết ng khác đang nói dối hay k- Biết cx thực sự của ng khác là gì- Phân tích ng khác， khám phá tính cách và nét đặc trưng của con ng。- Ko cần có mặt trự Giải mã hành vi， đọc vị cảm xúc by Patrick King*sách tóm tắtThấu hiểu ng khác là nhu cầu cơ bản trong giao tiếp của con ng。 Chúng ta muốn: - Hiểu đối phương trc khi họ nói- Thấy đc động cơ đc ng khác- Bảo vệ mình- Kết nối và giao tiếp tốt hơn。- Nâng cao EQ - Trí tuệ cảm xúc- Phân nhóm những ng mình gặp để có thể ứng xử phù hợp- Hấp dẫn mọi ng - Biết ng khác đang nói dối hay k- Biết cx thực sự của ng khác là gì- Phân tích ng khác， khám phá tính cách và nét đặc trưng của con ng。- Ko cần có mặt trực tiếp， mà tìm hiểu qua bố mẹ， bạn bè。。。 Nhưng thông tin sẽ bị nhiễu và k có kq nhanh chóng。- Quan sát khuôn mặt， thái độ， cách ứng xử。。 Để đọc và hiểu ng khác。 Để đưa ra quyết định phù hợp。- Hiểu ng khác cũng để tự khám phá bản thân。Nội dung 1: Tính cách đc quy định trong gen？- Tính cách: Tính chất， đặc điểm nội tâm， ảnh hưởng trực tiếp tới suy nghĩ - hành động - lời nói- Trong 1 ng có thể có nhiều tính cách。- Tính cách là thứ có giá trị nhất của con ng。 Hiểu đc tính cách - tiếp cận đúng giá trị。- Mô hình 5 yếu tố: Đánh giá 1 người， quy họ về 5 đặc điểm: Cởi mở， tận tâm， hướng ngoại， dễ chịu， bất ổn。Mỗi đặc điểm có 2 thái cực。- Bài trắc ng MBTI -> 16 nhóm khác nhau。- Tính cách theo yếu tố bẩm sinh， môi trường gia đình （cha nào con nấy）， tuy nhiên có thể thay đổi dựa trên trải ng cá nhân Nội dung 2: Dù là ai， ta cũng k thể thoát đc QK- Biết đc QK của 1 ng -> phần nào đoán đc hành vi sắp tới。- Bản thân: Biết đc QK để tự thay đổi các yếu tố tiêu cực， hướng đến tích cực。- Thứ tự sinh ra trong gia đình cũng tạo nên tính cách。 Con cả thường ngoan ngoãn và nhiều thành công hơn， nhưng có ít sự liên kết với gia đình， càng lớn càng khác biệt。 Ngược lại con út thường hồn nhiên vui vẻ và k phức tạp， trẻ con kể cả khi trưởng thành。Nội dung 3: Rèn luyện kĩ năng quan sát- Muốn hiểu ng khác， cần đọc họ （tâm tư， tình cảm， cx， động cơ， nỗi sợ， khao khát。。。）- Cách đọc hiệu quả: Quan sát khuôn mặt， thái độ， cử chỉ， lời nói， hành động， ước mơ， mqh。。。- Lời nói có thể nhưng Cơ thể con ng thì ko nói dối đc- Phải học cách k ngừng quan sát bằng đôi mắt và bằng nội tâm để tìm cách ứng xử phù hợp。 Giúp các mqh phát triển， thành công trong công việc và cs。- Mỗi ng là 1 câu chuyện với nhiều cx26。09。2022N 。。。more
Joseph
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A good compilation of practices for more fully communicating with others， from non-verbal cues and being aware of baselines to noticing inconsistencies in speech and behavior。 There is not much depth in its content and only a few practical use cases and exercises。 There is also a large amount on personality testing and trivia， such that the book only acts as a basic primer more than a usable workbook。
Yasmine gamal
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سطحي اووي وممل ومطلعتش منه بحاجه والحمد لله اكتشفت اني مش لوحدي 。。。
Aden Goldwasser
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Listened， granted， but it was uninteresting。 Redundant， slow， intuitive， etc。 not impressed。 Good starter book， I suppose， if you are interested in low-level psychology。 But I can’t say that this is worth the read。
Xzs
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This book was decent， but not spectacular。 It describes personality tests and the various categories thereof。 I was hoping to gain a tidbit or two of insight into human behavior， but it was mostly a regurgitation of other books I’ve read on the subject。 It talks about the difficulties of spotting a liar and the fact that most people think they are a better judge of human emotions and intentions than they actually are。 I appreciated the summary of the entire book that appears at the end。 Although This book was decent， but not spectacular。 It describes personality tests and the various categories thereof。 I was hoping to gain a tidbit or two of insight into human behavior， but it was mostly a regurgitation of other books I’ve read on the subject。 It talks about the difficulties of spotting a liar and the fact that most people think they are a better judge of human emotions and intentions than they actually are。 I appreciated the summary of the entire book that appears at the end。 Although it was a very short book， it somehow evolved into laborious read for me， so the summary chapter was a nice refresher。 。。。more
Mariateresa Vanacore
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stile molto semplice， libro davvero interessante come primo approccio al tema。
Madison
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Good information but ONE HUNDRED PERCENT a self published book with terrible margins， outrageously large text and randomly widely spaced words throughout which made it murder to read lol 😷
Nicole Krueger
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Well written and easy to read。 Could be a good addition to a Psych101 class。 Basic information， nothing thought provoking to anyone who understands anything about psychology。 10+ pages explaining the Myer-Briggs Personality test？！ Come on。 1。5 stars
Tibor Mojzis
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Superficial and very boring。 Do not expect much。
Angelina
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This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers。 To view it， click here。 In this book the author invites to explore areas such as motivation， body language， personality traits in order to analyse， understand， and predict people's emotions thoughts， intentions and behaviours。 The author offers 10 questions that we can ask in order to understand oneself and others， and those questions are:1。 what kind of price would you work harfest for？ And what punishment would you work harfest to avoid？ （help to identify true motive behind their drive， what motivates them， what do t In this book the author invites to explore areas such as motivation， body language， personality traits in order to analyse， understand， and predict people's emotions thoughts， intentions and behaviours。 The author offers 10 questions that we can ask in order to understand oneself and others， and those questions are:1。 what kind of price would you work harfest for？ And what punishment would you work harfest to avoid？ （help to identify true motive behind their drive， what motivates them， what do they care about， what matters the most to them， it can reflect in their values， look at their needs） 2。 Where do you accept spending money， where you skimping all together？ （reveals what matter to them， what they want to experience and what to avoid？！ Look at their motivations， emotions around their answers？）3。 what is your most personal， meaningful achievement， disappointment and failure？ （ help understand their flows and what they are proud off， who they want to be， have their expectations been fulfilled） 4。 what is affordless and what is exhausting？ （helps to indicate where do people find actual joy） 5。 If you get to design a character in a game which character traits would you emphasise and which you would ignore？ （ what people see as ideal self， what’s less important in the world） 5。 what traits are common in people？ （ people mainly will describe their own qualities they brr er live they have）6。 What charity will you donate millions to if you had to？ （ what they care about widely/ values ideas/ motivation）7。 what animal best describes you ？ 8。 what’s your fav movie？ 9。 what would you rescue from the fire in your home？ 10。 what scares you the most？ （avoid， detest， fear） 。。。more
Wh3r3_i5_m1nd
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This book is literally the first psychology book to contain literally 0 psychology
Jackson
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The first chapter is useful… overall 95% fluff。 It’s all super basic content you can get from any communication class
Adam Blechschmidt
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Provided some practical application for understanding peoples motivations。 A few good insights into reading body language。The best part of the book was not the content， but reading it made me pay closer attention to those with whom I interact。
Isaac Samuel Miller
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Great book！This book really supports psychology and its evidence-based。 I learned a lot of great points from this book that I cannot wait to apply in my personal life。
Angel Veliz
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Interesting as heck。This book taught me to open my eyes and look at people with keen detection。 If I could put these observations into practice I could discover that nobody is perfect and that we have skills built in our brain to detect liars。
Atalyk Akash
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A lot of useless words
Jolanta
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Yet another so-called self help book where a so-called author quotes smart people， mostly psychologists and well known authors who actually had some knowledge about the topic。 I would call this an essay on the subject rather than a book one should spend his money on。 The guy adds little if nothing of his own ideas。 Buy C。G。 Jung instead or other authors he quotes and uses as a reference if you’re looking for something serious。 If you are not a fan of reading and simply want an easy brief on the Yet another so-called self help book where a so-called author quotes smart people， mostly psychologists and well known authors who actually had some knowledge about the topic。 I would call this an essay on the subject rather than a book one should spend his money on。 The guy adds little if nothing of his own ideas。 Buy C。G。 Jung instead or other authors he quotes and uses as a reference if you’re looking for something serious。 If you are not a fan of reading and simply want an easy brief on the subject， go for this one。 I do not recommend it， though。 。。。more
psychologywitch007
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Its good but sometimes he kinda loses what the Theme Was about but whatsoever its a good book for people that are interested in psychology！！
jersey
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very interesting
Chris
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The layout of this book is a little strange and so is the wording， but the information is really interesting to read。
Bruni Marco
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Not a comprehensive work of all details of （for example） ego defence mechanisms， body language， etc。 but a great way to learn about all major areas of people reading。 By the way， it would be impossible to summarize everything in just one book。 Particularly interesting in my opinion the practical advices the author gives in terms of questions to ask， things to notice， etc to better know the other person （or actually ourselves）
Tabish
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This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers。 To view it， click here。 A
Aya
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Useful
Billy Loe
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quite superficial but i’d say a good introduction to cover most bases。 i liked the execution， it was an easy read and the content made sense。
Maryan Abdullahi
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